Oh, My Soul

For the first time in my life, I can finally understand what James was referring to when he said,

"Count it all joy, my brothers when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of  your faith produces steadfastness.  And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing" - James 1: 2-4 ESV

In the past few months, I have felt God's presence like never before.  Even with a broken heart over circumstances that are beyond my control, I have felt what it truly means to have the "joy of the Lord".

I have always felt that my job as a mother was the most important task that I've been given on this earth.  While I've certainly not done a perfect job, I felt like my son was in a good place with his faith and that his relationship with Christ would help him to avoid some of the same mistakes that I, and many others, have made as young adults.

As Christian parents, seeing our children question their faith or struggle to make their faith their own can be very difficult to watch.  But God has recently reminded me that Dillan is not really mine anyway.  He belongs to the Lord.  Not only did God create him for a purpose, He loves him even more than I do.  And that's a love that's hard for me to comprehend!  That love has not changed throughout all of this....and it never will.

If you told me a year ago that I would be able to survive the hurt and fear that I have felt these last few months, I would not have believed you. I would have certainly believed the opposite...that I would have died of a broken heart. I know that sounds drastic to many of you. I hear people say all the time that we, as parents, are not responsible for the actions of our children. I know that as well, but when you have experienced so much heart ache and pain as a young adult yourself, you shutter to think that your own children might take a wrong road in life.   And when the decisions your adult children are making are against what you believe is moral and just according to God's Word, it makes it even harder to deal with.

But even now as I face my fear of the unknown, knowing that I have no control over what happens, my soul is at peace through this storm. I find myself still laughing and smiling most of the time. And in those moments when darkness is looming overhead, threatening to overtake me, Jesus hears my prayers and holds me in His arms to bare what I cannot bare alone.

During these moments, there is one song that repeatedly comes to mind.  The lyrics to this song describe how I feel more than I ever could.  It's a beautiful song that reminds me not to worry or fear the unknown. God is in complete control and He will bring about good from all that Satan has done to cause harm and pain. I have hope in Christ and His Word that there will be "beauty for ashes" and "joy for mourning". I am praying constantly for God to watch over my son and keep him safe, that He will remind him of his great love for him. That He would bring forth all that scripture that was held in his heart as a little boy and teen and reinforce who he is in Christ, for when we know who we are in Christ, we are not persuaded by the world.

If you are a fellow believer and feel compelled to pray for my family, I can assure you that your prayers are greatly appreciated. I believe in the power of prayer from God's people to heal and restore, and I'd love to pray for you as well.  Feel free to reply in the comments or message me through Facebook or Instagram if you have any prayer requests of your own.

Here's a link to the video of this beautiful song by Casting Crowns that I was referring to if you've never  heard it or would like to listen to the words again.

Oh My Soul by Casting Crowns

Blessings to each of you...........


Jessica Cobb said...

Lynn, you have been on my heart so heavily these past couple of months! I have prayed and cried and prayed some more! This is an awesome song and I LOVE how God can move and speak through music!! I love you and Dillan very much and will continue to pray that God will let his presence be known! 😘

Lynn Langford said...

Thank you so much for your prayers, Jessica. We’re so thankful for your friendship 🙏🏻❤️

Anonymous said...

Lynn please know that you are in my thoughts and most importantly in my prayers. Take comfort in knowing that every single hard step we take in this life, God is holding our hand! Love you my IG friend ❤️